Both as a mom and a runner, going the distance is my main goal. As a runner this means I'm quite slow, but as a mom it helps me to prioritize.
For example: all my kids can choose óne afterschool activity, preferably within walking distance. Because after doing the school run four times a day, they come home for lunch, I don't feel like driving around like a mad cabbie.
As a mom and as a runner I have made a lifelong commitment to these identities/activities, and I'm hoping to live a long life. Therefore it's important I use my energy and strength wisely, so I'll be able to go the distance, and not crumple into a sad, sweaty heap of misery.
Because tired runners can count on a ride to the finish and a comforting blanket around their shoulders, but who takes care of burnt out moms?
So I choose to go slow and far, rather than fast and short.
I'm in it for the long haul, and when I reach the end of the line I hope I can say: 'It's been a good run!'
In it for the long haul
Nicole Orriëns studeerde psychologie aan de Universiteit Utrecht. Sinds 2001 is ze fulltime blogger en eigenaar van Professional Blogging Services. Ze gebruikt haar achtergrond om praktische informatie voor dagelijks leven te delen. Nicole is getrouwd, moeder van vijf kinderen en woont op het Achterhoekse platteland. Achterhoekse platteland.
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great post, i'm in it for the long haul too, and taking it slowly, taking it all in :)
I love this comparison. I, too, refuse to become the Taxi Mom with my 4 kids.
Thanks for putting my thoughts into words! I'm always reminding myself to just slow down and enjoy every minute.
I really like this.
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